by Kumu Nālani | Aug 31, 2022 | Blog Posts, Changing, Growing
We think about the Spiritual Path as being fairly straightforward, but it isn’t really like that at all. Which is why people fall off the Path. Finding your way along the Path takes real commitment and tenacity. For as long as the memory within our stories tells us, Humankind has had to meet and face one uncomfortable truth – the truth of their humanness.
Sometimes it’s used as an excuse for our failings and mistakes. We can write them off as being “Human”. But is this level of our “Humanness” the same level of being “Human” as the Ancestors lived it?
So the real question is: what did they know that we do not? What is it that prevents each one of us living from the same level they did? And if we did, how would our lives be improved in some way, or would they?
When a set of Teachings is given within any traditional Cultural framework and you begin experimenting with what it’s like to live within them, each one of us is confronted with the weaknesses of our humanness because they are exposed and magnified by the Teachings we’re engaging with.
The roller-coaster of emotions (often labelled as unhappy ones) we experience is our resistance to letting go of what we have allowed ourselves to believe in for many years as Truth. As Humans we do not easily let go of anything we believe has valued and served us in some way. It is the not letting go that keeps us in a place of feeling stuck and unsatisfied. The more we hang on, the more rigid we become. We cannot move.
Often it is the very beliefs we are holding on to that are keeping us stuck – but we cannot see it because those beliefs have gotten us to where we are now. It is the Now that is telling us we are stuck and need to move, but it is the valuing of beliefs that we have outgrown – at some level we intuitively understand this even if it is a very vague intuitive sense – that is preventing the movement.
Every Tradition tells us that to prevent movement is to create suffering. We are the source and architect of our suffering…
Most people cannot take the roller-coaster of emotions. The roller-coaster feeling is the tension between holding on and letting go. Because we cannot cope with the intensity of the feeling, and because we have not learned how to experience the wide gamut of emotions in a healthy way, we resist the movement, telling ourselves all sorts of familiar fabrications: “I’m fine as I am”, “this is as far as I need to go right now”, “I’m OK, I don’t need to change”, “I like myself less now than before”, “itʻs normal to…” and 101 other one-liners.
All of them are the Voice of Resistance – we just don’t recognise it because itʻs a familiar voice and feeling the roller-coaster of emotions isn’t. When something isn’t familiar or when it fails to meet our imaginary view of what “becoming” looks like and what “light” feels like – we assess it as Bad or Not Good…what is really happening at the most profound levels is CHANGE…
And most of us arenʻt taught how to recognise it, embrace it, ride it out and live through it until it becomes our “norm”.
Which, if you really think about it, is why we actively seek out Spiritual Teachings in the first place – to make sense of ourselves…
People do not change because they cannot (or will not) go the distance. They haven’t learned basic coping mechanisms for being uncomfortable with uncomfortable experiences. They are thirsty for the quick fix that instantly makes them feel better and more approving of themselves – and that’s when the old “Stories of Resistance” like those one-liners really kick in.
That we have those thoughts is a normal process of personal change; that we allow them to keep us nailed to the same spot, is not. Are these words “pinging” you strongly in one way or the other? Are you feeling “the Yips”? Are you feeling uncomfortable? We hope so. That’s why we have given them to you. We want to be controversial. We want to create the Depths of Thought within you. We want you to objectively assess your own beliefs. We do not want you to stay nailed to the cross, sacrificing the finding of the Truth of Light within you. That is the mission of all Traditional Teachings in their pure form.
Uncorrupted Teachings help you to fight your way through; corrupted Teachings do not serve the Truth of You, they serve the corruption of your Spiritual Essence keeping you contained in “unpotential”, which is a wasteland, literally a wasting of your spirit and a wasting away of your potential. Uncorrupted Teachings teach you the Skill of Discernment, so you can see the Truth, corrupted Teachings will make it sound like truth, but really they’re hiding the Truth from you. They blind you to all that you can be. To all youʻre supposed to be.
You will only ever know this for yourself when you go the distance and follow the path to its end – in the process you will experience life unmasked. The roller-coaster of emotions is the first raw experience of unmasking. Only when you are unmasked, are able to decide the Truth. Which doesn’t require a decision at all…
How can I develop myself further Kumu?
- Join the School of Spirituality Spiritual Intelligence Training – Stage 1: 4 x Sundays in November 2022 @ 09:00am – 10:00am with Kumu Nālani live online or start the DIY Course and reach out to Kumu when you need to. This course is suitable for everyone
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by Kumu Nālani | Aug 1, 2022 | Blog Posts, Growing, Healing, Spirituality
A Moʻolelo is a story. Every story preserves important information for a healthy, spiritually-driven life. Teaching Stories have many layers and levels. We call this the kaona – the deeper, sacred meaning concealed within what is shared.
A Haumana/Student learns a moʻolelo word for word so they can share it acurately with the next generation of listeners to benefit from the Teaching. And the story of how the Naupaka Flower came to be goes like this…
There is a shiny green plant that grows near the beaches of Hawaii called the Naupaka. It has small delicate white half flowers. It was named for Naupaka, a Hawaiian Princess who lived many, many years ago at a time when the Naupaka blossoms were whole.
Her people loved Naupaka. She was always smiling and she had sweet words for all the people of the village. One day they noticed Naupaka was very sad. “Aue! Oh dear, why is Naupaka so sad?” they asked each other.
Word reached the King and Queen. They found Naupaka at the mountain pool. The face reflected in the water was a very sad face. “O dear daughter, why are you so sad?” her mother asked.
Naupaka shook her head “I am deeply in love, in love with a handsome young man named Kauʻi”
“Is he of noble birth?” her mother asked.
“No my mother, he is not”
The social order of the day did not allow members of the royal family to marry commoners. Her father said “we must consult the Kupuna/Elders of the Village. They will tell us what to do.”
Alas, the Kupuna did not give their decision. They said “Naupaka and Kauʻi must journey far, they must journey to the Heiau. There the Kahuna will tell them.”
Naupaka and Kauʻi journeyed for many days until they finally reached the great heiau at the top of the mountain.
There they waited at the lava wall and called out to the Kahuna within. “We have arrived here at your temple. Please answer us and come to speak with us.”
The old Kahuna arrived and listened to Naupaka and Kauʻi. He shook his head sadly. “The Hawaiian Gods must decide.”
Suddenly the sky darkened and the wind rose. There was a torrent of rain, a loud clap of thunder and flashes of lightening. Naupaka and Kauʻi embraced sadly. The Gods had given them a sign. They were not to marry.
Naupaka tore the blossom from her hair. She broke it in two and placed half the blossom in Kauʻiʻs palm. “We will separate” she said. “I will remain here in the mountains and you will journey back to the seashore. And, my beloved, never again will we meet”.
The Naupaka blossoms growing nearby heard the lovers sadness and bowed their heads.
To this very day the Naupaka blossom of the mountains and the Naupaka blossom of the seashore remain in perfect halves
The Hawaiians believe that some day Naupaka and Kauʻi will be reunited and the flowers will again bloom as whole, perfect blossoms.
Mahalo Anakala Pilipo Solatorio – this moʻolelo was shared with Uncle by Anake Noni Beamer. Mahalao na Kupuna for preserving this beautiful Teaching Story for us all to learn, live and share.
☝🏽 Learning Challenge From Kumu Nālani:
- Challenge yourself to “think like a Hawaiian” (thatʻs one of the things we help Seekers and Practitioners interested in Hawaiian Culture & Healing to develop) as you read this Moʻolelo
- Can you find the main points that tell you what this Moʻolelo is about?
- What is the purpose of this moʻolelo – the Kupuna/Elders always did things for a purpose, moʻolelo is not different
- Now, can you take it a step further and find the “kaona” – the deeper, sacred meanings placed carefully within this story?
- Write or record your answers – send them to me if you like and Iʻll give you some feedback 😍 here to share with me
- Next Step: put what you learn into practice in your own life…
🌺 We always start each module of our Hawaiian Studies Courses with a Teaching Moʻolelo – you can begin learning about Hawaiian Spirituality, Culture and Healing right now in our distance education, self-paced course: Path to Paʻa. You work your way through all of the learning materials and reach out to Kumu when you need help or clarification. And if we donʻt hear from you, weʻll reach out to you.
🌺 The Path to Paʻa is also in a live, online facilitated format with weekly classes with Kumu Nālani. Suitable for Spiritual Seekers and Healing Practitioners – especially Lomilomi Practitioners to make sure you have our correct cultural teachings in place…youʻll find (as everyone does) your work will go next level very quickly. Get on the mailing list so you know when the next Course is on 👉🏽 here to be first 👉🏽 learn more about our Courses and do the free preview course too (and yes, you can always send Kumu questions too without enrolling in the full course 😊) 👉🏽 click your heels to go here 👉🏽 want to join something really cool that will help you grow into the true essence of yourself – open to Spiritual Seekers and Healing Practitioners especially of Lomilomi – join the Hawaiian Studies Club: the Path to Paʻa is one of the Courses included as part of your membership along with HEAPS of other KA BOOM Learning Activities, Forums and Biz Building Resources 👉🏽 go for a browse here 👉🏽 and then get on the waitlist here
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by Kumu Nālani | Jun 23, 2021 | Blog Posts, Healing, Latest News, Spirituality
Itʻs one of those WOO-HOO Moments! Weʻre excited to launch this flagship Training Program. Itʻs the full-blown Traditional Training that weʻve done ourselves. And, as well as being recognised by our Lineage of 50+ Generations, your qualification is recognised in 27 Countries which means that you can conduct Hoʻoponpono Sessions with Clients in any of those Countries. Youʻll be able to add Hoʻoponopono as a Healing Modality to your insurance if youʻre a Practitioner.
Luna Hoʻoponopono Training hasnʻt been done this way before…anywhere! Weʻve taken every piece of the Hoʻoponopono Healing Process and broken it down into bite-sized chunks; weʻve not only thought about the Process, but what we’re (the Luna Hoʻoponopono) actually doing when we use those “chunks” into the Process. Weʻve analysed each of the meta (big) skills as well as the micro (itty bitty) skills, and scrutinised what weʻre doing when we say this word or that word. That is, what the intent behind it is – what the Ancestors wanted to achieve as a result of “doing” each skill, “embodying” certain qualities, “thinking” in a particular direction and so on…
And weʻve done it for each of the Lessons weʻve included in the Training Program. Thatʻs why itʻs a full-on, deep, deep, deep experiential immersion into not just learning about Hoʻoponopono but really understanding every part of it in detail. Which is mission-critical because weʻre dealing with people’s lives and theyʻre coming to us, the Luna Hoʻoponopono, for help to get back on track. For Healing.
In case you missed it, we’re real Practitoners ourselves doing sessions with people – so this isnʻt an “academic” Course, itʻs the real deal…
This Program is also at the pointy-end of Mythbusting all those furphies (improbable stories claimed to be factual. Furphies are supposedly ‘heard’ from reputable sources, sometimes secondhand or thirdhand, and widely believed until discounted) that are plastered regularly across the Internet. And thatʻs one of the reasons, Kumu Paʻa Nui Lawrence Aki, our own Kumu, wanted Traditional Luna Hoʻoponopono Training done in detail. Because what is untrue is contributing to the death of the actual Traditional Cultural Practice. In a way, when people continue to do what is not Pono/right, they are contributing to Cultural Genocide…
…tough words, but this is a serious issue and itʻs also why we set up the SoHAD as a Social Enterprise – so we could put in place Projects which preserve the Teachings and Cultural Practices in all sorts of different ways. If you’re a Practitioner or Home Healer of Hawaiian Lomilomi Massage Bodyworker, from any of the Schools, Luna Hoʻoponopono is part of the must have skill-set – so you need to do the Training. Itʻs Professional Development for you that also gives you another Healing Service to offer your Clients in additon to what youʻre already doing. All Practitoners of Healing and Wellness Modalities can do Ho’oponopono Sessions.
And, if you’re a Home Healer – someone who works with family and friends – you do this Training as well. In fact, thatʻs how it is Traditionally done, within the family. Itʻs still done like this today.
How much do you really know about Hoʻoponopono and being a Luna Hoʻoponopono? Put yourself to the test and take this learning challenge – youʻll find out whether youʻre on track or, maybe it will truth-bomb you! Either way, youʻll also get a feel for some of the learning activities in our Training Courses – not sterile, death by powerpoint or boring “read yourself into a coma” learning resources. Instead, you’ll find a warm and encouraging classroom with engaging experiential learning activities, community meetups and vibrant spiritual learning…
🌻 Give the Quiz a go and then weʻd be super, duper, knee-knockingly excited if you join our class – here to enrol and do the Free Preview Course too.
☝ Thereʻs an automated Payment Plan or you can pay in full, whatever works, but if you need an alternative, reach out and letʻs see what we can customise for you. The last Training Program for 2021 starts 01 August. First modules release 25 July and our first Meetup get together is 01 August via the Online Schoolhouse.
Oh! Thereʻs also a Special Introductory Course Fee Offer until 30 June 2021. We really want to work with you and train you to be a confident, highly skilled Luna Hoʻoponopono doing Hoʻoponopono the way our Ancestors wanted it done – read the Course Guide for more and then we’ll see you in the lumipapa/classroom…